Here’s a guide to help you navigate the first steps after your engagement.
1. Celebrate the Moment
The first thing you should do is pause and truly soak in the moment. It’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of wedding planning, but take a deep breath and enjoy this special time with your partner. The excitement of your engagement is something you’ll want to remember forever, so let yourselves revel in it before moving on to the next steps.
2. Share the News
Once you’ve had a chance to relish the moment together, it’s time to share the big news with your closest family and friends. Whether it’s through a phone call, a video chat, or an in-person visit, spreading the joy with those you love is an important part of the engagement experience. Their excitement will only add to your own!
3. Treat Yourself to a Manicure
Your engagement ring is now the star of the show, and your hands will be getting a lot of attention. Treat yourself to a fresh manicure so that your ring—and your hands—look their best. Plus, it’s a little self-care moment that can be a fun way to continue celebrating your engagement.
4. Schedule an Engagement Photoshoot
Capture the love and excitement of this chapter with a dreamy engagement photoshoot. These photos will not only serve as a beautiful memory but can also be used for save-the-dates, wedding websites, or even your wedding invitations. Choose a location that’s meaningful to you as a couple, and let your love shine through the lens.
5. Start Envisioning Your Perfect Wedding
Now that the initial celebrations are over, it’s time to start talking about your wedding day. Sit down with your fiancé and discuss the type of venue you both envision, the ideal date or season, and your budget. This conversation is the foundation of your wedding planning journey, so take your time and ensure that you’re both on the same page.
6. Consider the Support You’ll Need
Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, and it’s important to consider the kind of support you’ll need along the way. Whether it’s leaning on a trusted married friend, using an online or printed wedding guide, or hiring a professional wedding planner, make sure you have the right resources to help you create the day of your dreams. The key is to ensure that you’re not shouldering the entire burden alone, so you can focus on what truly matters—each other.
7. Turning Planning into a Joyful Journey
Wedding planning is a big task, but it doesn’t have to be stressful. With the right guidance and support, it can be an enjoyable experience that brings you and your partner even closer together. As a wedding planner, my goal is to help bring your vision to life, so you can focus on the love you share and the life you’re building together.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed or just want to make sure everything goes smoothly, I’m here to help. Together, we can turn your wedding dreams into reality, ensuring that every detail reflects your unique love story.
So, take that deep breath, enjoy the excitement of being freshly engaged, and know that you’re not alone on this journey. Your perfect wedding day is just around the corner, and I can’t wait to help you create it.
